Make it easier for your loved ones by crafting a Living Wish with Wealden Funerals

Creating a “Living Wish” for when you pass away can help you shape the way you’re remembered and ensure your values and intentions carry on. It can also help to alleviate some of the worries and uncertainty for those family and friends you leave behind.

Understanding the Living Wish for End of Life

A Living Wish for the end of life is a thoughtful and intentional expression of how you want to be remembered and how you envision your legacy continuing after you’re gone. It’s not about material possessions or financial matters; rather, it’s a heartfelt statement that captures the essence of your values, experiences, and the impact you’ve had on the world.

Creating a Living Wish with Wealden Funerals

At Wealden Funeral Services we can help you create a Living Wish and store your wishes until the time comes. It is also a good idea to give a copy of the document to your nearest relatives or the person who will be responsible for making your funeral arrangements (Guardian).

It is also worth noting, that if your Will is lodged with a solicitor for safe keeping there may be a short delay in gaining access to it at a time when decisions about the funeral need to be made.

Things to consider:

1. Reflect on Your Legacy: Begin by considering the life you’ve lived and the mark you want to leave. Reflect on your values, passions, and the relationships that matter most to you. What do you hope people will say about you? How do you want to be remembered by your loved ones and your community?
2. Craft Your Message: Write a personal message that encapsulates your wishes for your loved ones and the world you’re leaving behind. This could include guidance, advice, expressions of love, or even specific wishes for the future. Your message should be a genuine reflection of your essence and the wisdom you’ve gained throughout your life.
3. 3. Share Stories: Consider sharing stories, anecdotes, and life lessons that hold meaning for you. These can offer comfort, guidance, and a connection to your personal journey. Your stories can serve as a source of inspiration for those you leave behind.
4. Forgiveness and Gratitude: Take the opportunity to express forgiveness and gratitude. Address any unresolved issues or conflicts you might have and offer forgiveness if it’s in your heart. Likewise, express gratitude for the people, experiences, and moments that enriched your life.
5. Choose a Guardian: Select a trusted person, such as a family member, friend, or legal representative, to ensure that your Living Wish is carried out according to your wishes. This guardian can help facilitate communication and ensure that your message is shared appropriately.
6. Make it Accessible: Store your Living Wish in a secure yet accessible place, ensuring that your chosen guardian and loved ones know where to find it. You might consider sharing it with them in advance, so they understand its significance and the role they’ll play in fulfilling it.

Creating a living wish can benefit you and your loved ones in many ways- helping to ensure that your wishes are respected and that you receive the funeral that you want.